Private Eyes


"Lady Doe" has told us her story, but prefers to remain anonymous. She is in a very high-profile occupation, and unfortunately would take a big risk in revealing her identity. But her story speaks volumes to women everywhere.

Hello. My story is told in the hopes it will help someone else with my disorder...Trichotillomania.

I am a 46-year-old female, and my problem did not begin until I was about 32 years old when I began experiencing several devastating life experiences at once.

First was a marital problem. Anyone who has experienced divorce can relate to this; it is traumatic, even if it is your idea! At the same time, my father was diagnosed with colon cancer, and began a yearlong decline to his eventual death. My father and I were very close and it was difficult to deal with his pain and suffering. During this same period, my 12-year-old nephew died suddenly from a brain aneurysm. Combine this with a non-present spouse, and I began pulling my hair.



It only occurred in the evenings after visiting my father and waiting for my husband to come home. I would sit in front of the TV and pull. I don't think I was even aware of what I was doing until one day I looked in the mirror and noticed a small, quarter-size spot on the crown of my head. It gradually got bigger until I had to start parting my hair on the side and over the spot in an attempt to cover it up. Eventually that became impossible, and I found myself wearing hats everywhere. I am very athletic and love swimming and scuba diving, which became impossible because of the hair-pulling. I went to specialists, who were not familiar with trich (I diagnosed myself), and my doctor agreed to try putting me on several medications, including Prozac. None of these worked, and I eventually stopped going to counseling.

I also realized my job was a contributing factor to my pulling. I am in law enforcement and feel the stress of my job is focused inward. Most of my male counterparts drink, use drugs, or tend towards violence. Women internalize stress, and since I don't use drugs or drink, hair-pulling has somehow become my release. It may even have become a habit, as when I go on vacation, or am around people, I do not think of pulling my hair. I have had my hair grow back to 1-2 inches in length, only to pull again when I am back home, by myself, usually in front of the TV.

I have found my particular method very helpful, as my hair grows when I am unable to reach it.Helen says keeping up with the tightening process will disable additional pulling. I’ve found this to be true, as long as I keep up with my tightenings. . I hope this insight has been helpful and others will recognize their disorder. Helen and Jo at Klassics have been wonderful, and always make me feel at ease. I highly recommend them for any issues of hair loss as they are truly experts, and more importantly, terrific people doing a terrific service for those in need.


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